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Hello everybody, hope you are all doing good, heres what im asking , I have been busy constantly working on recording and writing, and making sure I follow a schedule, but the people I live with now talk like crazy if they dont see me for not even for 5 hours they act like they havnt seen me in forever while im trying to work, so when I do walk out of my room to relax they just talk about random things and other offensive stuff and I just shake my head if I dont give them a response they just ramble on and on, it gets to a point to where I get frustrated and i opt out by just forcing myself to sleep , is there any way I can work around this? I dont want to be mean to them its just that its driving me mad , the only two days I get free from them is when im at the dojo

Hey. It sounds like your roommates are just trying to get your attention. You could try hanging out with them (eat lunch/dinner, go watch a movie, etc), and maybe they won't be as annoying after you get to know each other. Are you able to work efficiently in your room? If not, then maybe you can go to a local coffee shop or library, and work there.

hello , and nah its not really roommates, I dont really have friends , the only thing close by me is the strip joint , I mean I love these people dont get me wrong , but space is sometimes needed , I really cant go nowhere around here since mostly everytime i walk outside people i dont know go hey got any weed?!..I even have older people walk towards me trying to score some which puts me off

sorry just fully read your post, I would love to find a part time job somewhere, I wasn't able to work for a while since I had a mental breakdown which mad me see a lot in human nature I truly disgust I don't really want to discuss it since it messes with me , but I recently got a car I just need to hold on for insurance and easing myself into driving again

I think you misunderstood me. What I meant earlier was that if you're having trouble getting your work (recording and writing) done because your housemates are being loud/disturbing you, then you could go elsewhere, like a coffee shop, and do your work there.

Anyways, I'm not really sure what other advice I can give you, but congrats on getting a car! Hopefully, you'll find a part time job that you love.

oh lol sorry XD , been stressed lately, im sorry if i come off weird but im doing a little more better getting back into meditation , its been rough these couple days, but thank you for your input , I would love to have my own studio that I can block everything for a short while