Grrr...I must be so boring.

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Uhh sure I can get a date, yippee...but guess what clearly I am so boring no one keeps an interest in me. So meh, don't know what to do....maybe not meant to find any kind of ongoing relationship. I just want someone to enjoy vinyls and going to concerts with me and maybe cuddling listening to music or you know just hanging out...tripping together. IDK what guys are looking for...guess I am not it. Hell I don't even expect some clean shaven, professional career minded person, in fact that may even be a turn off. I also like facial hair on some guys, it doesn't look good on all guys but have seen guys where they look better with it than without so its like even that is not a turn off and I know lots of people now-adays are obsessed with guys with clean shaven faces and chicks with clean shaven arms and legs well screw that crap.

I don't know where are all the hippie dudes and dirty metalheads who just want to enjoy some time with a girl and have it potentially go further? Wow kind of embarrassed to post this but I guess I am getting a little lonely, seeing people even people close to me in great seeming relationships. My cousins already having a baby and from the impression I've got they'll make it work..I don't want to have a baby, but its like I can even hope to be in a relationship serious enough that would even be considered.

Well, you are fortunate in that one of your interests involves being in a social situation: going to concerts. In that alone you have two guarantees: most of the people there like going to concerts, and most people there like at least some of the same music you do - assuming that you think these are both important factors in a relationship.

But I would also be cautious in the way of meeting people at clubs/concerts (or other places where people are just 'having a good night') perhaps being more inclined to show interest in one night stands instead of forming lasting relationships with those they meet.

I don't find you boring. You just haven't met your guy yet, so you either haven't been lucky or are doing something wrong. I have some friends who may be your type, but you are quite far .

Been there... still am. Only difference is I'm trying to chase down a job, primarily because my parents are pathological worker bees. I can't for the life of me understand why hippiedom and productivity are seen as mutually exclusive by the majority. I've learned more code tripping than practically any other time in my life. Hell, despite how smart they are my folks are obsessed with conformity to the point of health risk.

Seems to me everyone who believes their actions and possessions separate them from the rest of the biosphere is still mammalian. A favorite song of mine lately states that we're already evolving into machines in our minds...

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Or you are significantly better looking in pics than in real, in dating you get dismissed sometimes for far shallower reasons than being boring or not.

Sweetleaf: when you say "vinyls," do you mean what we used to call "records" Do you play "vinyls" on a turntable?

We might just get back "record stores!"

We used to call "turntables" "record players." In the 1970's, record players were usually attached to stereos--by that time, they began to be called turntables. In the 1960s, we just had self-contained record players whose only function was to play records.

Whatever the deal is about people not keeping interest in you is a little odd. It's hard to get an accurate read on someone over the internet, though from your posts you seem pretty cool, thoughful and interesting. Try not to let it get to you too much.

Sweetleaf, you don't sound boring at all. You actually sound pretty much like the sort of person who I'd want to spend time with.